Celebrating Love for People with Disabilities

 Celebrating Love for People with Disabilities

Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and connection. However, in many Asian communities, people with disabilities often face barriers to pursuing relationships due to stigma and societal neglect.

Many mistakenly believe that individuals with physical disabilities lack romantic desires or the ability to form meaningful relationships. I experienced this firsthand before my marriage and even after, as colleagues often questioned how a person with a physical disability could live with a partner. Our research in Pakistan’s urban and rural areas found that families often view girls with disabilities as fragile or incapable, negatively impacting their lives. Some are even exploited in false relationships, left abandoned after having children. These harmful stereotypes label people with disabilities as “incapable” or “unsuitable” partners, leading to their exclusion from romantic and marital opportunities. Some also assume that relationships should only exist between people with the same disabilities, such as deaf individuals only dating other deaf people or blind individuals only dating the blind.

Others infantilize people with disabilities, treating them as if they are children who don’t need or shouldn’t have romantic relationships. This attitude disregards their right to experience love and intimacy like anyone else, including those with Down syndrome.

The Need for Inclusive Education

Change begins with schools. Schools must provide disability-friendly relationship education, families should support autonomy, and media should represent individuals with disabilities as capable of love. Campaigns like Love Without Limits in South Korea showcase inspiring stories of couples who challenge societal barriers.

Sex education is often considered taboo in many Asian countries. Without proper sex education, not only are people with disabilities discriminated against, but young children also become more vulnerable to abuse. Relationship education rarely accommodates their needs, leaving them unprepared to navigate relationships safely. Worse, materials often lack accessibility features such as sign language support or simplified guides for those with learning differences. Studies show that individuals with disabilities face higher risks of abuse, highlighting the urgent need for inclusive resources.

Breaking the Dating Taboo

In many Asian cultures, dating is considered sinful, leading to resistance from society. In India, for example, extremist groups have attacked couples in public. Even in more developed Asian countries, families and caregivers sometimes discourage people with disabilities from dating, fearing harm or misunderstanding. Interviews across Asia reveal that many individuals have been told to “wait until you’re older” or to “focus on other things.” A 40-year-old man with a developmental disability shared, “My parents told me I wasn’t ready for a relationship—even at my age.” Such attitudes reinforce the myth that people with disabilities don’t understand love or deserve companionship, emphasizing the need for independent living in Asia.

Despite these challenges, activists and organizations are working to change perceptions. In Japan and India, workshops on relationships for disabled youth are becoming more common. Online communities across Southeast Asia are creating safe spaces where people with disabilities can share their stories and experiences.

Valentine’s Day reminds us that love is for everyone. As one young woman with cerebral palsy put it, “Love isn’t about ability—it’s about connection.” By challenging stereotypes and improving education, we can ensure that people with disabilities are included in the conversation. This Valentine’s Day, let’s celebrate love in all its forms and work toward a world where everyone, regardless of ability, can experience it fully.

 This Valentine’s Day, let’s celebrate love in all its forms—and work toward a world where everyone, regardless of ability, can experience it fully. Valentine's Day is to show love to loved ones, including family, relatives, parents, offspring, spouses, and partners.

Tips for People with Disabilities are not in any relationship to Celebrate Valentine’s Day:

• Spend time with your loved ones.
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• Practice self-love and schedule a self-care day.
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• Make plans with friends.
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• Volunteer with your favorite NGO/DPO.
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• Exchange gifts with friends and family.
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• Join or organize a group activity.
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• Take a break from social media, screens, and alcohol for the day.
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• Call friends you haven’t spoken to in a while.
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• Socialize and meet new people.

Love is universal, and everyone deserves to experience it in their own way. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day a celebration of inclusivity and acceptance.

World Radio Day 2025

 

World Radio Day 2025

Every year on February 13, the world comes together to celebrate World Radio Day, a tribute to one of humanity’s oldest and most resilient forms of communication. Declared by the United Nations in 2011—surprisingly late, given radio’s century-long influence—this day reminds us of radio’s unique power to connect, inform, and inspire. In 2025, the theme “Radio and Climate Change” highlights how this humble medium can drive urgent conversations about our planet’s future. From remote villages to bustling cities, radio remains a lifeline for millions, proving that even in the digital age, its relevance hasn’t faded.

 Why Radio Still Matters  

Radio’s simplicity is its strength. It doesn’t require expensive gadgets, stable internet, or literacy. A basic receiver and a pair of batteries are enough to bridge gaps between communities, governments, and experts. This accessibility makes radio indispensable, especially in regions where poverty or geography limits access to technology. In Pakistan, for instance, a recent Gallup survey found that 16.5% of the population tunes in weekly, with young people (ages 15–24) forming a significant chunk of listeners after prevalence of Mobile Phone. Even among older adults (55+), over 21% rely on radio regularly. These numbers may seem modest, but they represent millions who depend on radio for news and music.  

Pakistan’s official broadcaster, Radio Pakistan, operates 67 stations across the country, using a mix of FM, medium wave, and shortwave frequencies. Yet, while these stations serve urban and rural areas, there’s a glaring gap: Pakistan has zero community radio stations—a stark contrast to neighbors like India (494 stations) or Afghanistan (155). This absence is puzzling, given radio’s potential to address local needs. 

 Community Radio

Community radio is grassroots media at its best. Run by and for local people, it broadcasts in regional languages and focuses on hyper-local issues—agriculture, health, education, and disaster response. Take Nepal’s Radio Sagarmatha, South Asia’s first community station, launched in 1997 after a five-year struggle for licensing. Or Bangladesh’s 32 stations that empower farmers with weather updates and crop advice. These stations aren’t just broadcasters; they’re community builders.  

In Pakistan, the 2005 earthquake became a turning point. When the disaster wiped out communication networks in Kashmir and Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, the Pakistan Press Foundation (PPF) stepped in. With no prior experience, volunteers set up makeshift radio studios in shipping containers to share lifesaving information. This effort not only aided recovery but sparked interest in community radio. Today, PPF runs 12 radio studios in press clubs nationwide, waiting for licenses to launch full-fledged stations.  

The need is clear. Half of South Asia’s population lives in rural areas, where internet access is scarce. For farmers, women, and marginalized groups, community radio could deliver tailored content—like climate-smart farming techniques or disaster preparedness—in their own languages. Organizations like HANDS Foundation could lead this charge, creating programs that educate and engage communities on pressing issues like climate change.  

Radio vs. Climate Change 

Climate change isn’t just a scientific challenge—it’s a communication crisis. How do we explain rising temperatures or erratic rains to a farmer in Sindh or a herder in Balochistan? Radio bridges this gap. With trusted local voices and culturally relevant messaging, it can translate complex ideas into actionable steps.  

This year’s World Radio Day theme urges broadcasters to:  

1. Raise awareness about climate impacts.  

2. Promote sustainable practices, like water conservation or renewable energy.  

3. Amplify grassroots stories, giving a platform to those most affected.  

In Pakistan, where floods and heatwaves are becoming routine, radio can warn communities about disasters, share recovery resources, and advocate for policy changes. Imagine a daily show where meteorologists explain weather patterns, or NGOs like HANDS Foundation host call-ins to discuss tree-planting drives. Radio’s intimacy—its ability to feel like a conversation—makes these messages stick.  

 Radio for the Visually Impaired Persons

For visually impaired individuals, radio isn’t just convenient—it’s liberating. Without relying on screens, they access news, education, and entertainment independently. In regions like Pakistan, where disability resources are limited, radio becomes a classroom, a companion, and a career path.  

Educational programs teach languages, vocational skills, and even coding. Talk shows let listeners engage with social issues, reducing isolation. Entertainment—music, dramas, storytelling—offers respite from daily struggles. Moreover, radio opens doors for visually impaired talent. From hosting shows to producing podcasts, many find purpose and income in broadcasting.  

Advances like digital radio and voice-activated devices (e.g., smart speakers) have made content even more accessible. For someone who can’t read a newspaper or navigate the internet, a radio’s “on” button is a gateway to the world.  

Pakistan stands at a crossroads. While Radio Pakistan’s network is impressive, the lack of community stations holds back rural development. Licensing hurdles and bureaucratic delays must be addressed to unleash this potential. The success of PPF’s container studios post-earthquake proves that local radio works—it saves lives, builds trust, and fosters unity.  

Meanwhile, climate change demands urgent action. By partnering with NGOs, universities, and international bodies, Pakistan’s radio sector can become a hub for environmental education. Young people, who already tune in widely, could lead this shift through youth-led programs or citizen journalism.  

For the visually impaired, radio is a right, not a privilege. Advocates must push for inclusive policies—like quotas for disability-focused content or training programs for blind broadcasters.  

World Radio Day isn’t just about celebrating the past; it’s about reimagining the future. In an era of TikTok and AI, radio’s human touch—its warmth, immediacy, and reach—remains irreplaceable. From battling climate change to empowering marginalized groups, its potential is limitless.  

Pakistan has the tools: a young population eager to engage, NGOs ready to innovate, and airwaves waiting to be filled with local voices. What’s needed now is political will and public support. Let’s turn up the volume on community radio, climate action, and inclusivity. After all, in a world of noise, sometimes the simplest voices speak the loudest.  

As we mark World Radio Day 2025, let’s remember: every frequency, every story, and every listener brings us closer to a better world. Tune in, speak up, and keep the dial on hope.

International Day of Women and Girls in STEM

 

                             Photo with thanks to UN

International Day of Women and Girls in STEM 

Every year on February 11th, we celebrate the International Day of Women and Girls in Science. This day recognizes the important role women have in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM). It was created by the United Nations to encourage more women and girls to join these fields.

In 2025, the theme is “Unpacking STEM Careers: Her Voice in Science,” which means showing how important it is for women to be represented in STEM. Although progress has been made, countries like Pakistan still have a lot of work to do. Many women face big challenges when trying to get into these fields.

In Pakistan, there is a big difference between men and women in STEM. More women enroll in humanities than in science. Gender inequality in the Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics (STEM) field is considered a feminist issue in modern times because, overall, women are likely to enroll less in the STEM education field in comparison with men. Statistics show that forty-six percent of women are enrolled in the Humanities discipline in Pakistan, whereas enrollment in scientific and technical subjects is comparatively low. Pakistan ranks at 145 positions out of 146 with a gender gap index of 0.057, which has decreased by 3 points from last year.

In Pakistan, people often think STEM is for men, and girls are guided to other roles. Schools in rural areas often lack good facilities and trained teachers, and families tend to prioritize boys' education. Even when women enter STEM fields, they face negative attitudes, lower pay, and fewer chances to become leaders.

For women with disabilities, the barriers are even greater. Physical accessibility in labs and opportunities for those with visual and hearing impairments are often not available. Society often sees disabilities as incompetence, adding to the gender bias.

Governments need to support inclusive STEM education. Companies should check for bias in hiring. Teachers should receive training to support all students, regardless of gender or ability. And everyone should challenge the idea that STEM is not for women.

As 2025 continues, let's make real progress. It’s about supporting the deaf girl coding her first app, the rural teenager building solar panels, and the chemist in a wheelchair creating new drugs. Their futures—and ours—depend on it.